Most of us throughout our lives have heard a phrase such as "You are just like your dad!" or "You have the temper of your grandmother!" etc. It's true in my family each of the cousins on my mom's side of the family have been told they have some trait of Mimi's. To tell you the truth as much as we loved Mimi, we all hate to be compared to her. She was beautiful but she could be bitter at times. We tend to blame our actions or personality on genetics. We might say "That's just the way I am" or "It runs in the family". I'm pretty sure I've used that phrase before.
This past weekend my beautiful cousin informed us she'd read somewhere that people who had their tonsils out when they were young tended to be over weight later on life. She pointed out that her mom, aunt, & I had our tonsils out & have struggled with our weight while the others (including her) hadn't had theirs out & have maintained their decent weight. I'll admit a bit of envy did come over me. I have beautiful cousins who haven't had to fight weight like I have, and then I thought if only I hadn't had mine out I might be small. I quickly snapped back to reality & realized my weight struggle began long before the tonsils were taken out. I'm not sure how accurate that study was she read. It could be all coincidence, but it ties in with the Bible study I'm doing.
We've been reading
Calm My Anxious Heart. This week was entitled Content to be me. It deals with so many aspects from your body to your personality. Whether it's our weight, talents, mentality, personality etc... we have the ability to change. We can choose to change our ways and not follow in the footsteps of bad influences. Instead of blaming my weight on my tonsils or my asthma I can choose to eat healthier & workout. Instead of blaming my bad qualities on my Mimi or my stubbornness on my dad I can choose to change those. The point is to stop making excuses & do something about it. When you change you'll feel better, have more confidence, & others will see the change in you.
My hope is that I'll stop being compared to Mimi unless it's to say I look just like her. I'll take that because she was a beautiful woman!